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		<title>Comment on How to deal with unexpected tough tasks by Daniel</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/how-to-deal-with-unexpected-tough-tasks/comment-page-1/#comment-339</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 00:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have mixed feelings on that point.  It can help to have a fresher perspective later, but I really don&#039;t like leaving things unresolved.  The more troubling it is to begin with, the more I just want it to be finished, and dealing with it right away lets me breathe a sigh of relief.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have mixed feelings on that point.  It can help to have a fresher perspective later, but I really don&#8217;t like leaving things unresolved.  The more troubling it is to begin with, the more I just want it to be finished, and dealing with it right away lets me breathe a sigh of relief.</p>
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		<title>Comment on America: Day 41 &#8211; A Climactic Adventure by Eric</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/america-day-41-a-climactic-adventure/comment-page-1/#comment-333</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 01:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, yes.  Now the warehouse is haunted by the mirth and good feelings of all the folks that night.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, yes.  Now the warehouse is haunted by the mirth and good feelings of all the folks that night.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspiration, momentum, and stagnation by Myles</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/inspiration-momentum-and-stagnation/comment-page-1/#comment-331</link>
		<dc:creator>Myles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 02:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lists.  They focus me and make me think about priorities and total possible time commitments.  For me the major downside ends up being prioritizing short-term deadlines over longer projects.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lists.  They focus me and make me think about priorities and total possible time commitments.  For me the major downside ends up being prioritizing short-term deadlines over longer projects.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspiration, momentum, and stagnation by Alexandra</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/inspiration-momentum-and-stagnation/comment-page-1/#comment-329</link>
		<dc:creator>Alexandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 18:03:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a tough one. Write them down?  Usually I only have one main idea I work on at a time, and that  is my passion so my mind remains on that one idea all the time, no matter what else I&#039;m doing. Right now it is toxic chemicals and getting new regulation and getting the Swedish documentary Submission to an American audience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a tough one. Write them down?  Usually I only have one main idea I work on at a time, and that  is my passion so my mind remains on that one idea all the time, no matter what else I&#8217;m doing. Right now it is toxic chemicals and getting new regulation and getting the Swedish documentary Submission to an American audience.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Contradance College by Inspiration, momentum, and stagnation &#124; Dispatches from Life</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/04/contradance-college/comment-page-1/#comment-328</link>
		<dc:creator>Inspiration, momentum, and stagnation &#124; Dispatches from Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 16:41:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] oriented toward improving one of my communities, or to making myself loads of passive income. I announced here a while ago that I would be conducting a survey of colleges that are good for contradancing, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] oriented toward improving one of my communities, or to making myself loads of passive income. I announced here a while ago that I would be conducting a survey of colleges that are good for contradancing, [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on New default procrastination method: making music by Daniel</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/new-default-procrastination-method-making-music/comment-page-1/#comment-326</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 04:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps you and I have different ideas of what procrastination is, but I consider it to be postponing productivity, work, pursuit of one&#039;s goals.  If you choose a &quot;default procrastination method&quot; that is in fact, productive, and brings you closer to achieving your goals, then as far as I&#039;m concerned it&#039;s no longer procrastination.  It&#039;s another thing to do which, at times, I will procrastinate from through other methods -- because procrastination happens, and that wasn&#039;t fitting the bill.

I agree with you that procrastination happens.  You say, we can&#039;t eliminate it, so let&#039;s channel it into something else.  I say, we can&#039;t eliminate it, but we can minimize it.  Perhaps there&#039;s something to both methods.  You aren&#039;t likely to eliminate other procrastination by replacing all your down time with music making, but maybe you can do some of each, and then move on to your other work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps you and I have different ideas of what procrastination is, but I consider it to be postponing productivity, work, pursuit of one&#8217;s goals.  If you choose a &#8220;default procrastination method&#8221; that is in fact, productive, and brings you closer to achieving your goals, then as far as I&#8217;m concerned it&#8217;s no longer procrastination.  It&#8217;s another thing to do which, at times, I will procrastinate from through other methods &#8212; because procrastination happens, and that wasn&#8217;t fitting the bill.</p>
<p>I agree with you that procrastination happens.  You say, we can&#8217;t eliminate it, so let&#8217;s channel it into something else.  I say, we can&#8217;t eliminate it, but we can minimize it.  Perhaps there&#8217;s something to both methods.  You aren&#8217;t likely to eliminate other procrastination by replacing all your down time with music making, but maybe you can do some of each, and then move on to your other work.</p>
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		<title>Comment on New default procrastination method: making music by Bre</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/new-default-procrastination-method-making-music/comment-page-1/#comment-324</link>
		<dc:creator>Bre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 17:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, Alex, again, you pose thought-provoking questions.  First off, I would like to say that I appreciate your acknowledgment that &quot;procrastination happens&quot;.  An acceptance of what is certainly can help boost us out of anywhere and into somewhere better.

I wasn&#039;t prepared to accept that &quot;procrastination happens&quot; toDAY, necessarily, but, what the heck?  Why wait for a better time?

I guess, as the new owner of a brandy-new-to-me laptop, I have been spending WAY too much time playing with it. So, I would say that has been my default of late.  This has been only somewhat productive.  But, a little productive, yes.  Tipping windmills takes time, don&#039;t ya know.
Since the idea of procrastination is to postpone productivity, then the computer, for me, has somewhat failed, since it has been a bit productive.

So, how to postpone productivity in a different way?  What can I do that is, to me, a total waste of time?  Good question.

Well, I still don&#039;t know.  I&#039;ll think about it later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, Alex, again, you pose thought-provoking questions.  First off, I would like to say that I appreciate your acknowledgment that &#8220;procrastination happens&#8221;.  An acceptance of what is certainly can help boost us out of anywhere and into somewhere better.</p>
<p>I wasn&#8217;t prepared to accept that &#8220;procrastination happens&#8221; toDAY, necessarily, but, what the heck?  Why wait for a better time?</p>
<p>I guess, as the new owner of a brandy-new-to-me laptop, I have been spending WAY too much time playing with it. So, I would say that has been my default of late.  This has been only somewhat productive.  But, a little productive, yes.  Tipping windmills takes time, don&#8217;t ya know.<br />
Since the idea of procrastination is to postpone productivity, then the computer, for me, has somewhat failed, since it has been a bit productive.</p>
<p>So, how to postpone productivity in a different way?  What can I do that is, to me, a total waste of time?  Good question.</p>
<p>Well, I still don&#8217;t know.  I&#8217;ll think about it later.</p>
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		<title>Comment on America: Day 41 &#8211; A Climactic Adventure by Kiera</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/america-day-41-a-climactic-adventure/comment-page-1/#comment-323</link>
		<dc:creator>Kiera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 15:40:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That sounds incredible!! So glad you had such a neat adventure and met new interesting people. Haunted warehouse! Wow.. that would&#039;ve made me nervous but also kind of intrigued! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That sounds incredible!! So glad you had such a neat adventure and met new interesting people. Haunted warehouse! Wow.. that would&#8217;ve made me nervous but also kind of intrigued! <img src='http://alexkg.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Responding to Tone by Kiera</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/responding-to-tone/comment-page-1/#comment-322</link>
		<dc:creator>Kiera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 14:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can be quite stubborn and opinionated at times but I also find myself being more so as soon as I feel like the person I&#039;m discussing something with or argueing with seems to be telling me how I should feel about something and I perceive them as not recognizing my opinion as my own and not repecting it as different, maybe, but still perfectly valid. I get immediately more defensive than I would otherwise be. I&#039;ve felt like I may need to work on this responce so I can try not to engage defensively as often (getting emotional just creates a lot of messiness when trying to &quot;discuss&quot; something). Sometimes I realize I may just be acting contrary for the hell of it, but often I think I&#039;m responding to someone elses attitude. So I definately see what you&#039;re saying and can relate to responding differently according to the vibes I&#039;m getting off the person I&#039;m speaking with. It&#039;s hard not to be reactive. That&#039;s what conversation is, contributing and reacting, but being conscientious about how one reacts and why when you notice yourself getting emotional or defensive seems really important. Maybe this isn&#039;t really what you were talking about, Alex.. these are just thoughts I&#039;ve had from my personal experience on the topic of reacting differently in an arguement according to the way the other person puts their opinions forward. Thanks again for the thought-provoking post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can be quite stubborn and opinionated at times but I also find myself being more so as soon as I feel like the person I&#8217;m discussing something with or argueing with seems to be telling me how I should feel about something and I perceive them as not recognizing my opinion as my own and not repecting it as different, maybe, but still perfectly valid. I get immediately more defensive than I would otherwise be. I&#8217;ve felt like I may need to work on this responce so I can try not to engage defensively as often (getting emotional just creates a lot of messiness when trying to &#8220;discuss&#8221; something). Sometimes I realize I may just be acting contrary for the hell of it, but often I think I&#8217;m responding to someone elses attitude. So I definately see what you&#8217;re saying and can relate to responding differently according to the vibes I&#8217;m getting off the person I&#8217;m speaking with. It&#8217;s hard not to be reactive. That&#8217;s what conversation is, contributing and reacting, but being conscientious about how one reacts and why when you notice yourself getting emotional or defensive seems really important. Maybe this isn&#8217;t really what you were talking about, Alex.. these are just thoughts I&#8217;ve had from my personal experience on the topic of reacting differently in an arguement according to the way the other person puts their opinions forward. Thanks again for the thought-provoking post!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are bad things good? by Kiera</title>
		<link>http://alexkg.com/blog/2010/07/are-bad-things-good/comment-page-1/#comment-318</link>
		<dc:creator>Kiera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 18:41:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am constantly trying to accept the crappy things about my past as all part of a greater learning process. I really do see the benefits of having dealt with struggle and hardship. It does make me stronger and more secure about myself in many countless ways. 

It&#039;s a little different when noticing bad things around you, not as personal and close to home in the same wsy, but also really important. I often take notice of those things too and try and learn, or like your example about witnessing a mother hit her child, seeing these things makes me all the more clear on what I find acceptable and what type of parent I will be and expect others to be.

Great topic, again, Alex! (of course) Thanks! I love how often I find your blog posts really thought-provoking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am constantly trying to accept the crappy things about my past as all part of a greater learning process. I really do see the benefits of having dealt with struggle and hardship. It does make me stronger and more secure about myself in many countless ways. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a little different when noticing bad things around you, not as personal and close to home in the same wsy, but also really important. I often take notice of those things too and try and learn, or like your example about witnessing a mother hit her child, seeing these things makes me all the more clear on what I find acceptable and what type of parent I will be and expect others to be.</p>
<p>Great topic, again, Alex! (of course) Thanks! I love how often I find your blog posts really thought-provoking.</p>
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